Be a girl with a mind, A woman with attitude and a lady with class.
身为家里最小的女儿，当然已经成为是爸爸的宝贝，可是我很庆幸的说，我一点都没有被宠坏。做错事情也会被打被骂被惩罚。 从小一直都有很多疑问，很多自己的想法，难怪妈妈常常说我是家里的小恶魔~ 哈哈哈。
我是个对爱情很认真的女生。通常会考虑很久很久很久很久才会接受一段恋情。就算是这样，但我从来没有为一段感情 “生不如死” 过。
简单来说，爱自己就是对自己的欣赏和喜爱，因为这个世界上你是独一无二的！你就是这个世界的唯一。爱自己，并不是代表你自恋，而是能够认识到自己的缺点，坦然地接受自己的一切。Cause' you're amazing, just the way you are! :）
还是，你也有自己的 “有一种爱情” 和我分享？
During those days when I was pursuing in my degree and also on my career, I get alot of questions on how did I manage?
Yes, I have to admit that I did almost went crazy but thank god I am still living fine and still sane...(for the time being, haaa!)
I was stressed like a crazy monkey as no.1, being on the second year of degree is where comes all the crazy assignments you needed to accomplished and no.2, I am so so so new, knowing nothing about the entertainment industry AND what not, no.3, I'm an English educated banana making her debut in the CHINESE music market. Great.
I remembered the most stressful moments were when I needed to choose between work and studies.
One of my tour events clashing with the group assignment video shooting days. Shyt.
Not attending classes when I was involved in some theater performances for almost a month. (This was the worst)
And...whenever I received an email regarding any schedules from my company, I eventually FREAK OUT. Why? Simple. I needed to google translate the whole entire email as I was so afraid I would missed out any info they required me to prepare.
However, eventually, everything became fine and yes, I am able to text in chinese language now. 呵呵，是不是很厉害？hahah *just kidding*
And beyond all those, How on earth did I stay sane?
1) GIVE YOURSELF A TIMEOUT
Yes. When every single thing clashes and BOOM, feeling like the end of the world, I went away.
No, being away doesn't mean avoiding all the problems and running away from all the unsettled things to be done, but taking a half day off going somewhere peaceful and far.
Well, I didn't have the time to go somewhere far, so instead, I went to someplace peaceful for myself and only myself.
Whether it was taking a walk in a park, playing with the swing or even treating myself few scoops of yummy ice creams.
Then, when your mind has been calmed down and you have a clearer version of what to do first, I'll start back up again.
2) AVOID ASKING "WHAT IF"
I avoided negative formulated questions that creeps to my mind every now and then. I avoided asking, "What if this is couldn't be done on time?" "What if it doesn't work out?" "What if this...." "What if that..."
If you kept thinking this way, yes. 99.9% you'll drive yourself crazy anytime soon.
3) CRY IT OUT, LAUGH IT OUT
When it comes to the time that you are surrounded with cannons and shot guns pointing at you. Don't refrain. Cry it out.
Initially, I'd always thought crying was for the weak. I NEVER really cry. Well, at least not in front of any one, or at least not for something that was not worthy to be crying for.
But I WAS WRONG.
Crying helps you release all the stuffed and suffocated emotion inside you. Whether or not you think it is unnecessarily to cry, if you feel like crying, just do it.
From that onwards, I never hide my emotions much. Being more true to myself and yes, ignore what people would think of me.
And there you have those buddies who were always there for you and after you cry, I'll usually laugh it out.
It may sound alittle crazy crying and then laughing, but trust me, you'll feel so much more light-weighted!
Okay, I know this may sound alittle ridiculous for a 22-year old to actually say this but yes. Breathing helps.
Deep focused breathings allows you to feel more grounded, bringing you back to the present moment and lower your stress level.
Take a 10 minute everyday to just focus on your breathing or even a higher level of focusing, which is, meditation.
5) ASK FOR HELP
Last but not least,
Don't be shy to ask for help. There are more experienced people out there that you can learn from and they had been through all the hell stressful times that you're going through right now.
At least, they'll guide you and comfort you better. =)
In the end of the day, I'm still grateful on whatever happens and I'm glad I've been through all those hard times.
There will be even more obstacles ahead of me, I believe. Yet, I'm ready to take up the challenge and go for it!
Singing was my dream, still is and always will be. I'll continuing striving till the end no matter how hard it takes.
Will you stay with me?
Well hello you!
To those whom had knew me earlier or years back, I've always been active in blog since 2007, yet after I graduate from high school and entered the university, and also debuted my first singles in the entertainment industry, yeah, my blog was literally dead.
And so! Before the meaningful year of 2015 ends...
Here's my official comeback for blogging, approved by my record label and here, I'm going to share with you about my lifestyle, music and jobs. (Well.. I wouldn't be posting like every day but I promise to keep it updated! =D )
Plus, the reason of this blog comeback is to also to share with all of you, my upcoming latest music song and EP which will be officially out by December *cross fingers* haha
So, stay tuned and have a happy potato day! =D